we learn wisdom from failure much more than from success .

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Words screaming in my head.
Why did you leave?
And I can't stop dreaming.

Saying "it's okay" is easier than really forgiving someone. Saying "I forgive you" may be more brain than heart. And saying "it doesn't bother me" seems better than explaining how you really feel. Open your eyes, and don't drown yourself in the matters, because sometimes it's all in your head. Listen wholeheartedly to what he has to say, and ask yourself what he is apologizing for. Don't limit a person to only 3 chances, because we're only human, right ? Sure, some may be deceiving, but if he is worth it, he will try anything just to hear you accept his apology. Everyone makes mistakes - there's no doubt about it - but welcome that failure, learn from it, and move on. Failure cannot stop you from becoming who you want to be.